10/1/2008
Kender needs help
Some of us who’ve been around for a while know Kender’s story, but let me share a little bit about what I know that makes this bleg urgent.
He’s caught in the system; having had a problem with his kidneys since he was a little boy. He is smaller because he went through those health problems as a child, and today, he can’t make too much money - because if he does, he has to forego the much-needed government benefits he needs to survive and get his life-saving medical treatments. Without dialysis, he would die.
His last kidney transplant failed. He has so far had two of them, as far as I know.
That part pretty much sucks, but he pretty much takes it all in stride. I find that amazing; I am constantly amazed by Kender’s unfailing resolve.
He did have a moment recently when he hit a low and said he was going to suspend treatments, that he saw no hope of going on, that he was going to write a note to his son, and just shrivel up and die….but that was short-lived.
You can understand how someone who lives with this condition every day might have a low day now and then; even healthy people with no problems go through that.
Now, his ’significant other’ relationship is over, and he finds himself without a home. He had a pretty nice set up with her, he had a home dialysis machine and she was his assistant backup in case something went wrong in the process; which can happen sometimes. Sometimes the patient passes out; but any number of things can happen in the process of putting in the needles, etc.. But the main point is, when he’s doing his own dialysis at home, he’s not at the mercy of the ‘unit’s’ schedule, and he feels better; not to mention the fact that he doesn’t have to find transportation to and from the unit.
At any rate, this lady still has his dialysis machine. He moved in with someone temporarily, but needs to get back there to collect his belongings, but more importantly, get his dialysis machine, and he needs his own place to live, which is another expense that is much more expensive up front, but will be manageable once he pays those up front expenses.
All of these things take money, and he has no vehicle, which is another factor which is going to prevent him from doing what he needs to do.
Now, we have had a generous offer out of Florida where a woman is willing to give her motor home to Kender, if we can find a way to get it to California. So we’re working on several ideas to get it from Florida to California; one of which is an old-fashioned daisy chain.
We have an offer to help out from Alabama, and another from Dallas, Texas, and Kender’s dad is in Arkansas - and he’s willing to pitch in. The motor home will take about a quart of oil a day traveling that far, and I’m not sure about gas mileage, but these are all things that will cost - but it’s the cheapest route to get it to where it needs to go.
Updated stops…
See the preliminary map and stops, here.
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So take a look at the map and let’s see if we can get that vehicle over to him. Insurance and tags are paid for and the transfer will happen once it’s in California, which was also very trusting and generous of the owner.
He needs some cash - to put some of his stuff in storage, to raise money for his new place, and a number of things that I’ve already mentioned, and he is between a rock and a hard place as far as being able to do it for himself, and that’s where you come in. Please contribute whatever you can; time is of the essence here; he needs to get his stuff; particularly his dialysis machine.
Kender’s plan is to get on his own two feet so he can move forward from here. Every now and then it helps to get a leg up.
So please go to his website and donate what you can.
Click on Kender’s Musings and donate through the paypal button in the left hand sidebar.
Update: Kender tells me that being tethered to a unit’s schedule robs him of his freedom, and he doesn’t feel as good when he goes through their dialysis procedure as when he does it at home.
being back in a unit has proven I don’t feel as good on a machine in center
and mentally I cannot lose my freedom again
and frankly I simply must find a way to make this work or I will lose my machine and I am not sure that I can handle that again….
and if every person who stopped by just left 5 bucks we would be doing ok
Also posted at STACLU, TWA, and Cao2
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October 2nd, 2008 at 6:29 am
Kender’s Not-So-Final Post…
It seems clear now that Kender’s “Final Post” was merely a clumsy attempt to drum up sympathy, prior to a pathetically overt plea for money.
And sadly, some folks will no doubt fall for this transparent ploy.
UPDATE 10/02/08 7:22 …
October 2nd, 2008 at 5:59 pm
Meatbrain is a sick individual…anyone who sees this please go there and leave him a comment showing your disgust. Not only is what he has done in bad taste - terribly bad taste - but it’s also against the TOS with his hosting company.
He has mirrored web pages before and been chastised by his hosting company for this…I think it’s time we reminded the hosting company that meatbrain is a constant offender in this regard.
October 2nd, 2008 at 6:56 pm
Frankly, Cao, I’m amazed that you permit the trackbacks from that… person.
Ah, well, your blog - but it must be tiring to take out the trash on such a regular basis
October 2nd, 2008 at 7:12 pm
That post has violated the TOS with his hosting company….if it was just another ******* type post, I wouldn’t have bothered…but he’s hit an all time low with this one
October 3rd, 2008 at 1:04 am
When they talked about Meathead, I always thought they were talking about some “symbol” for liberals. I would seem that he’s a real person (though I use the term loosely).
October 3rd, 2008 at 1:06 am
I’d feel sorry for Kender if he ever showed a degree of humility and introspection in the past. Alas, he hasn’t that I’m aware of until his farewell and even that was spiteful.
It would have been incredibly useful to know that he was on government aid and can’t make too much money because he’d then have to forgo treatment.
Why doesn’t he get a job or start a business, & get private health insurance, which is far superior than government-run health care, as his friends all proclaim.
That’s how real conservatives deal with these things, right? Pulling themselves up by their bootstraps and all that. He sounds like he has become dependent on the government.
October 3rd, 2008 at 4:16 am
There is no requirement to ‘feel sorry’ for Kender. The word I use is …compassion. (a word that doesn’t exist in the self-absorbed modern liberal’s dictionary)
But you people seem to enjoy when people suffer…in fact, meatbrain in particularly not only ENJOYS it when his political opponents are suffering in one way or another, he makes a point of broadcasting it on his pathetic blog. That leads me to believe that you and he both have something seriously wrong with you.
What I find totally bizarre are the requirements you people have in order to have compassion for someone who’s in trouble. But perhaps you’re completely unable to be compassionate; that’s what I’m starting to conclude.
Because he’s a “racist” - which I’ve never seen and is laughable considering all the different races that have been blended into his own family…which I doubt the supreme white guy meatbrain has in his own family….how many hispanic brothers and sisters do you have, meatbrain? How many blacks? From what I can tell your children are as white as snow. What a hypocrite he is…perhaps that’s why he has so much white guilt.
Because Kender doesn’t show “humility” (whatever that means) you provide the most pathetic excuses for your obvious schadenfreude. People with low self-esteem are more likely to feel schadenfreude than are people who have high self-esteem…isn’t that a shame that meatbrain needs to celebrate the misfortune of others to feel better about himself?
You need some mental help.
Sorry, when you donate organs there is nothing on the form that requires that the organ recipient be a certain race or ideology…
and it’s the wonderful age of socialism that meatbrain is trying so hard to usher in that has Kender in this weird position to begin with. The system requires that he NOT earn money in order to collect his benefits. The catch to that is…if he were to earn his own money, he’d have to earn an obcene amount in order to cover his medical requirements/benefits.
But when it progresses to what meatbrain would consider utopia…people like Kender will be too expensive to keep alive and a burden on the system.
Maybe you could work on lobbying for that …that only liberal fascists on the dole be allowed to collect benefits and a person whose views don’t agree with yours should just kick the bucket with your blessing ::twisted:
I’m sure it would be received well by people of your ilk.
October 5th, 2008 at 11:47 am
Thank you and your family for the service to our country.
it is refreshing to see a Woman conservative —
I made an offer on the ACLU/blog to drive for Kender.
I have an employee who had a kidney transplant after being on diyalsis for several years and almost dying–VA and company help was all he had after our medical group plan cancelled us –
October 6th, 2008 at 3:46 am
Cao, what you’re criticizing is the free market in medical care that conservatives are always trumpeting. YOU sound like some sort of communist now.
Isn’t it interesting how when conservatives are the victims, they clamor for socialized medical care? Conservatives love the free market until they get victimized by it and then they’re all for ’socialized’ what-have-you.
As I said over at Meatbrain’s blog, I have used Universal Health Care in Japan and liked it much more than my healthcare in the US. It’s cheaper, more comprehensive & more transparent than what I have to deal with in the US.
Everyone, even Kender, should have it. Instead though, conservatives (even John McCain himself) would rather have ‘government’ health care for themselves and force everyone else into the supposedly wonderful private market - the private market that they, like Kender, have opted out of, no less.
All I’m asking for is consistency from Kender. It would be nice to get it from you, as well, given your belief that Kender needs gov’t health care. I’m not holding my breath though.
Consider your hypocrisy exposed though. Conservative ideology works just great until it collides with reality, like it has in Kender’s case.
October 6th, 2008 at 5:59 am
Where on earth do you get the idea that government benefits which restrict the ability of someone to work - are based on or have anything to do with - the free market?
I don’t know about Japan, but I’m learning that contrary to your bluster about how wonderful it is, Japan has some problems brewing with its nationalized healthcare.
Just 8 years ago in 2000, they were discussing on the internet how Japanese healthcare was mostly private…but 8 short years have changed everything as the government stepped in to try to contain costs.
Pricing and Reimbursement in Japan: Costly healthcare system inefficiencies increase the focus on healthcare cost containment.
Of course, outfits like NPR are broadcasting how the Japanese get more for less, but with rising numbers of elderly patients and a workforce hard pressed to pay for the benefits for them, trouble looms for the Japanese and innovation is at a virtual standstill.
So thinks aren’t as rosey for healthcare in Japan as you would like to think with your rosey depictions of socialism, but then again, you’re a friend of meatbrain.
Ah but who cares about facts, anyway? Certainly not meatbrain and his ilk.
We should be keeping an eye for disaster to strike Japan as it’s already struck in countries that have ‘free’ healthcare: In other areas of the world where there is universal health care - like Cuba - Canada and Britain, people are literally DYING while they’re waiting to be seen.
That kind of BS is already happening here in America…as a woman died in a waiting room in a psychiatric hospital recently…
Sorry, bud, that’s not the ‘free market’ at work…that’s a warning sign as to the deteriorating health care system that will only get worse if the government ends up in control of it.
You apparently don’t even understand what “free market” means!
Canada’s “father of universal health care” recommends an overhaul of the system and going back to privitization!–under government control, Canada’s national healthcare system is in crisis.
It would figure you’re a fan of meatbrain’s, LOL
Socialism/communism is based on government control - which slows an economy down and takes away incentive to work -which is precisely what the system is doing to Kender.
The free market is increasingly not being allowed to correct itself; as government keeps interfering!!!
October 6th, 2008 at 9:58 am
By the way, if Kender is dependent on the system, why don’t you show him some tough love and make him pull himself up by his bootstraps?
Why are you enabling his idleness with your generosity? You’re just reinforcing his culture of laziness. Right? That’s conservative ideology as told to me by FOX News and you’re choosing to treat the symptom rather than the disease.
CONSERVATIVE FAIL.
What’s the expression? give a man a fish…
October 6th, 2008 at 4:16 pm
that’s what we’re helping him to do - pull himself up. And he’s doing it. He doesn’t get a “free ride” from anywhere - and hasn’t his whole life. How is this any of your business, one wonders?
when Jen Hall got her head kicked in by a couple of homeless people - and wound up in the hospital missing all but 4 of her teeth and had to have part of her skull removed…did people just leave her alone - to pull herself up by her own bootstraps- or did they set up a fund and start fundraising so she could pay over $100k of medical bills while she’s convalescing and going to physical rehab to walk again?
I think you’re hysterical over something that is none of your business. If people want to help someone who is literally disabled out of the goodness of their hearts, they have a right to do that without your idiotic condescension.
How do you know he is idle? Who the hell are you to tell me what to do? What business it of yours to ask me about what kind of care me and/or my family are getting?
Japan might be clean, but - if you ever get arrested THERE - there is 100% conviction rate! bWAHAHAHA!
I don’t imagine Japanese people stand in parking lots crying for the people who’ve been convicted like meatbrain does with Mumia…
Hey. Why don’t you give that a try and let me know how it goes?
October 6th, 2008 at 6:48 pm
Why don’t you help him by getting him private insurance instead of inferior gov’t healthcare then?
Oh, that’s right… the private insurers would probably reject him because of his ‘pre-existing’ condition. Or else charge him so much that he literally can’t afford health care. But hey! that’s the free market for you! Funny how when conservatism and reality collide you instinctively run away from the market.
Great system we have! Given your non-response, I assume you don’t have any insurance at all.
October 6th, 2008 at 7:58 pm
I suggest you go out into the street there and start demonstrating against the police there and Japan’s devastating 100% conviction rate. Because not all 100% can possibly be guilty, right?
Let me know how that works for you.!!!
You’re giving up some things for what you claim is “free”.
I don’t know if you said how long you’ve been in japan, but one has to wonder why you haven’t noticed Japan’s economic problems.
I repeated that because you’re ignoring my points on Japan - which indicates to me you’re not willing to acknowledge the problems that are a result of the stupid system they’ve adopted there. Now, back to the US:
So while you claim that what’s happening here is due to the free market, it is not.
The symptoms we’re seeing are because of more government intervention–what is happening is not because the free market is being allowed to work, dearie.
~Oklahoma Senator Tom Coburn, M.D., writing in the NY Sun
October 7th, 2008 at 5:28 am
That’s common sense, but of course socialists don’t have any.
But none of that matters to YOU, just as long as it’s “free”.
Failure Defined as Success in Socialized Medicine
And there you have the problem in a nutshell, you loony!!!! bwahahaha
Japanese nursing care in trouble
Is the system collapsing?
Wow, sounds like it’s not such a rosey picture there!!! But of course what they’re calling for us more government to “control” the crisis, LOL
Yeah, that’ll work…:roll:
You have your head in the sand and are unable to face reality…!!!
Good luck with that…and…let me know how your protest against that Japanese 100% conviction rate goes.
Prison In Japan Part I: The Taxi Ride
What kind of socialist are you that you don’t publicly condemn and protest this practice?
CHICKEN?